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1、AreyouMrsJust-good-enough?三分之一男性愿意和不爱的女人结婚Menaremorelikelythanwomentomarrysomeonetheyfeelisnotquiterightforthem,debunkingthemyththatwomenwilldoanythingforaring-andthatmen,ontheotherhand,willdoanythingtoshuncommitment.男人其实比女人更能接受不是很有感觉的人作为自己的结婚对象,这打破了女人愿为结婚做任何事,而男人
2、会不惜一切逃避婚姻承诺的不实传言。TherecentSinglesinAmericasurveybyMatch.com-whichalsodrewattentiontothesexualdifferencesbetweenpoliticalpersuasions-deliveredthesurprisingresults.婚恋网站Match.com近日开展的美国单身人士调查发布了这一惊人的结果,该调查还关注了男女在政治信仰上的差异。Ofthesurvey's5,000respondents,31percentofmen,c
3、omparedto23percentofwomen,admittedtheywouldconsidermarryingsomeonewho'haseverythingtheyarelookingforinapartner'butwithwhomtheyweren'tinlove.调查涵盖的5000人中,31%的男性和23%的女性坦言他们会考虑和一个“符合自己对伴侣的所有要求”但自己不爱的人结婚。21percentofmenwentevenfurther,confessingthattheywouldcommittosome
4、onetheyweren'tsexuallyattractedto.21%的男性甚至承认他们会和对自己没有性吸引力的女人结婚。Contrarytowhatpopularculturesuggests-whichladyhasn'tsympathisedwithBridgetJones,orlaughedat27Dresses?-men,youngmeninparticular,areonlytoohappytosettle.这和流行文化传递的信息正相反。哪个女人不曾与布里吉特•琼斯产生过共鸣,又有哪个女人会嘲笑《27次伴娘
5、》的主人公呢?受其影响,人们认为男人,特别是年轻男人,都很享受当前的快乐生活,不愿被婚姻绑住。Whetheritisaresignationtobelievingtheremayneverbe'theone'oracaseofdomesticpragmatism,menarewillingtocommitandlivealifewithawomantheyfeelisnot100percentideal.不管是无奈地认为“真爱”也许根本不存在,还是对家庭所持的实用主义价值观,不少男人愿意和一个并非百分百理想对象的女人结婚并
6、一起生活。Counter-intuitively,theurgetomarrywasevenstrongerformenintheirtwentiesthanforthoseintheirthirtiesandroseagainformenintheirforties.和我们的直觉相反,二十多岁的男人比三十多岁的男人更想结婚,在男人过了四十以后,结婚愿望又重新变得强烈起来。Theapparentresignationamongmentomarryforthesakeofmarrying-andthecompany,supp
7、ortandsecurityitoffers-ratherthanforloveandtrueattractiondoesnotcomeasnewstosomemen.男人为结婚而结婚对某些男人来说并不是新闻,他们为了获得陪伴、支持和安全感而结婚,而非为了爱情和吸引力而结婚,这显然也是无奈之举。TomFant,ahealthcareconsultantinNewYork,toldtheDailyBeast:'Theideaofbeingaloneinlifecanbesooverwhelming.Soulcrushingf
8、orsome.纽约保健顾问汤姆•凡特告诉美国新闻网站“每日野兽”说:“孤独终老的念头让人受不了。甚至让某些人有灵魂破碎的感觉。'Mencertainlyaren'timmunetoit,evenifmostofusliketopretendthatwearetoostrongtobescared,lon