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1、Nowadaysthereisoftenalackofunderstandingbetweenparentandchild.Parentsoftencomplainabouttheirchildren"s"unreasonable"behavior,whilechildrenusuallythinktheirparentstoo"old-fashioned."Then,whenachildhasaproblem,heusuallygoestohisintimatefriendsforsympathyandadvice,leavinghisparents
2、totallyinthedark. Therearesomepossiblereasonsforthepresentsituation.First,thetwogenerations,havinggrownupatdifferenttimes,havedifferentlikesanddislikesforthethingsaroundthemandthushavelittleincommontotalkabout.Second,parentsandchildren,duetothemisunderstandingbetweenthem,mayeve
3、nfeelituncomfortabletositfacetofacewitheachothertalking.Finally,withthepaceofmodernlifebecomingfasterandfaster,bothparentandchildaretoobusytospareenoughtimetoexchangeideas,eveniftheyfinditnecessarytocommunicate.Asaresult,thegapbetweenthemisgrowingwiderandwider. Tobridgethisso-c
4、alledgenerationgap,inmyopinion,bothparentandchildshouldmakeaneffort.Thechildrenshouldrespecttheirseniors.Theoldergeneration,ontheotherhand,shouldshowsolicitudefortheyoung.Asfortheirdifferences,bothgenerationsshouldmakeallowanceforeachother.Iftheywilltakethefirststepbyactuallytal
5、kingtooneanother,itwon"tbelongbeforethearrivalofabetterunderstandingbetweenparentandchild.UnderstandingbetweenParentsandChildrenNowadays,moreandmoreparentspaygreatattentiontotheirchildren.Butwhenitcomestothetopicofcommunication,mostofthemacknowledgethelackofit.Morethanonereasonc
6、ontributestothephenomenon.Tobeginwith,theeverheaviersocialpressureoncurrentparentsmakesthemignoretheirchildren.Theyhavetoworkhardandspendlesstimewiththeirchildren.Thesecond,someoftheparentsknowlittleabouttheskillsofcommunication,northenecessaryknowledgeofeducation,althoughtheyar
7、eeagertotalkwiththeirchildren.Themostimportantreasonmaybethetraditionalideasofauthoritywhichmostparentshavewhenfacingthechildren.Thus,theyarenotlikelytocommunicatewitheachotherasfriends.Tosumup,inordertomakeabetteratmosphereinwhichthechildrengrowup,theparentsshouldensurethestabi
8、lityofthefamilyandactasgoodfriendstothechildren