别人是你的一面镜子.doc

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1、别人是你的一面镜子~请把握好人生中的每一面镜子每天照照镜子，我们都会发现自己不满意的地方，重新把自己打扮得漂漂亮亮的；而人呢？是否也懂得其实每一个人都是一面镜子。看着自己不喜欢的人，要懂得自己要如何更好的完善自己，别让自己也成为大家不喜欢的对象。请把握好人生中的每一面镜子。别人是你的一面镜子Thefirsttimeyoumeetsomeone,inthefirstmomentyouformanimpressioninyourmindofthatperson.Yourreactionstootherpeople,however,arereallyjustbarometersforhowyoupe

2、rceiveyourself.Yourreactionstootherssaymoreaboutyouthantheydoaboutothers.Youcannotreallyloveorhateaboutyourself.Weareusuallydrawntothosewhoaremostlikeusandtendtodislikethosewhodisplaythoseaspectsofourselvesthatwedislike.Therefore,youcanallowotherstobethemirrortoilluminatemoreclearlyyourownfeelingsof

3、self-worth.Conversely,youcanviewthepeopleyoujudgenegativelyasmirrorstoshowyouwhatyouarenotacceptingaboutyourself.Tocoexistpeacefullywithothers,youwillneedtolearntolerance.Abigchallengeistoshiftyourperspectiveradicallyfromjudgmentofothertoalifelongexplorationofyourself.Yourtaskistoassessallthedecisio

4、ns,judgmentsyoumakeontoothersandtobegintoviewthemascluestohowyoucanhealyourselfandbecomewhole.Irecentlyhasabusinesslunchwithamanwhodisplayedobjectionabletablemanners.Myfirstreactionwastojudgehimasoffensiveandhistablemannersasdisgusting.WhenInoticedthatIwasjudginghim,IstoppedandaskedmyselfwhatIwasfee

5、ling.IdiscoveredthatIwasembarrassedtobeseenwithsomeonewhowaschewingwithhismouthopenandloudlyblowinghisnose.IwasastonishedtofindhowmuchIcaredabouthowtheotherpeopleintherestaurantperceivedme.Rememberthatyourjudgmentofsomeonewillnotserveasaprotectiveshieldagainstyoubecominglikehim.JustbecauseIjudgemylu

6、nchpartnerasoffensivedoesnotpreventmefromeverlookingoractinglikehim.Inthesameway,extendingtolerancetohimwouldnotcausemetosuddenlybeginchewingmyfoodwithmymouthopen.Whenyouapproachlifeinthismanner,thosewithwhomyouhavethegreatestgrievancesaswellasthoseyouadmireandlovecanbeseenasmirrors,guidingyourtodis

7、coverpartsofyourselfthatyourejectandtoembraceyourgreatestquality.