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1、AbloodcasecausedbyawatchTodayIwanttotellyouastory.Theheroofthestoryislilei.Onemorninglileiwokeupandwashed,heputhiswatchontheedgeofthewashstand,hiswife(doyouknowwhohiswifeis?).HanMeimeiwasafraidthewatchwouldgetwet,soshetookthewatchandputitonthetable.Att
2、hismoment,theirsoncametothetableandwantedtotakethebread,butknockedhisfather'swatchonthegroundandbrokeit.lileilovedthewatch,sohebeathissonandscoldedhiswife.HanMeimeiwasalsoangry,andthetwostartedtoquarrel.Thenlileididn'teatthebreakfastanddrovedirectlytot
3、hecompany.Whenhearrivedatthecompany,lileisuddenlyrememberedthathehadlefthisbagathome,sohehadtoturnaroundandgohome.Butnoonewasathome.Hanmeimeiwenttoworkandthesonwenttoschool.Lilei'sownkeywasinthebag,sohecouldn'tgetintothedoorandhadtocallhanmeimeiforthek
4、ey.Whenhanmeimeirushedhome,sheknockedoverafruitstandandtheownerdidnotlethergo.Shehadtopaythemoneyfortheowner.Whenlileiarrivedatthecompany,hewas15minuteslate,sohewasscoldedbyhisboss.Lileiwasinaterriblemood.Hanmeimeiwasalsodeductedforearlyretirement.Thei
5、rson,whoplayedbaseballfortheday,couldhavedonewell,butwasoutofthemood.Whataterribleday!Isn'tit?Atthattime,amysteriousmanappearedinfrontoflilei,saidtohim:"hello,lilei,Iamfestinger,thisstory'sauthor,ifIcanlettimebacktothismorning,yourwatchbrokeatthemoment
6、,wouldyoulike?"Ofcoursehewould!So,let'sseewhathappensnext.Thewatchwasbroken.Lileilovehiswatch,butalsoknowthatitcan'tchangethefactandtocomforthisson:"itdoesn'tmatter,Icantaketoberepairedwatches,butthenexttimeyoumaynotbesocareless."Afterthat,thefamilyhad
7、ahappybreakfastandwenttoworkontheirown.Asweallexpected,thesonwashappy,thewifewashappy,lileiwasalsohappy,theneverythingwouldnothappen.Thisisthefestingerrule.Hestressesthat10percentofourlivesarebeyondourcontrol,and90percentofwhatwecancontrol.Inthiscase,t
8、hewatchis10percentoffourcontrol.Thenextseriesofthingsisanother90percent.Althoughwecan'tcontroltheprevious10percent,wecanfullydeterminetheremaining90percentthroughourmindsetsandactions.Inreallife,Ioftenhearpeoplecomplain:howcanIbesounluc
