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1、Whatmakeslovelasting?A：Hello，everyone.Today,wewilltalksomethingmakeslovelasting?B：ok,letmejustsay.Ithinkthemutualtrustandloyaltyareessentialtomakethelovelasting.Asturdyloverelationshipisestablishedonmutualtrustandloyaltywhichcannotbeeasilyalteredtomaintaingenuinerelationships.On
2、onehand,mutualtrustisthemostbasicemotionalqualitybetweenaloverelationshipandifweareintroubleweneedtrusteachothertotideoverthedifficultpatchmutually.Soenhancethemutualtrustbetweenaloverelationshipisverysimple,weneedtheothersabouttheintegrity,tolerancetoothersandtounderstandothers
3、.Ontheotherhand,loyaltyisaessentialtoconsolidatetherelationship,becauseitisthebasicfoundationforpeopletotrustandcommunicatewitheachotheroncelackofthiselementwillbedifficulttomakethelovelasting.Tosumup,ifwewanttomakelovelasting,weshouldemphasizethesignificanceofmutualtrustandloya
4、ltywitheachother.C：Ithinkso.Butasweallknow,whenloveslivealongtime,theywillfindeachotherisnotgoodasbefore,andtheyalsowillfindmanybadhabitseachother,theywillfightjustforsomelittlethings.Thecontradictionswillbecomemoreandmoreserious,evenleadingtotherelationshipbeenbrokenup.Forgiven
5、essisthekeytosolvecontradictions.Ifwelovesomebody,weshouldlearntoforgive.Becausesometimesheorshedoesn'tloveyouthewayyouwantthemto,itdoesn'tmeantheydon'tloveyouwithalltheyhave.Everybodyhashisorheradvantagesandshortcomings.Ifwelovesomebody,weshouldloveallbelongingtosomebodyandcomm
6、unicatefrequently.Onlyforthis,wecangainaromanticandlongtimerelationshipbetweenourlovers.D：yeah……Meanwhile,communicationisthepremisetoforgiveness,whichincludesspeakingwithyourlovefrequentlyandlisteningtoyourpartnerpatiently.Everyonearedifferentfromeachother,itisthroughcommunicati
7、onthatyoucantellyourlovewhatyouarethinking,whatyouwant.Youneedtotalktoeachother.Talkingcanalsomakearelationshipstrong.Asyougothroughthings,ifsomethingisupsettingyou,takethetimeandsay“Hey,couldwetalkaboutthis?I'mfeelingalittleinsecureaboutthis.I'mfeelingalittlebothered.“Itisalsoi
8、mportanttosaythingsopenlyandhonestly.Well,liste
