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1、DifferencesofMatrimonybetweenEastandWestFouraspectsofthedifferences:ThepurposeofmatrimonyTherelationshipbetweenthecouplesThestandardofmateTheweddingceremonyChinesepeople’spurposesofmatrimonyIntheoldsociety,thepurposesaretoformaconnection—expandingthealliancesamongthere
2、lativesbyintermarriageandtohelptheman’sfamilytocarrythefamilyline.Inthemodernsociety,thesetraditionalpurposeshaveencounteredbigstrikes.Teenagerstendtobelieve“theGodnamedLove”.Westerners’purposesofmatrimonySecond,westernerswanttoseekacontrasexualmatewhocanaccompanythemp
3、ermanently.Thuscanmeettheirphysiologicalandmentalneeds..First,peoplewhohavefalleninlovewishaconsummatelove.Westernsocietyalwaysemphasizeonthedevelopmentofindependence.Therefore,westernershavestrongawarenessofself-centerednessandindependence.Inthesocietyamongwhichindivi
4、dualismisverypopular,themarriageisonlyacombinationoftwoindividuals.Andthemarriageisbasedonlove.Tothem,themarriagewithoutloveisanimmoralmarriage.TheWest83%Accordingtothestatistics,83%Americansregardloveasthefoundationandrequisitemotionofamarriage.90%Americansbelievethat
5、thechiefprincipleofmarriageisalsolove.90%TheEastChinesetraditionalideasofmarriageisthe“conjugalfelicity”.Payattentiontotheresponsibility.Childrenareanmostimportantreasonthatanmaintainthemarriage.Theproportionofthemarriagewhichisbasedonlove2%爱到极点无法控制25%甜蜜预约彼此相爱56.5%和睦相处
6、互有好感16.5%互不熟识无感情可言ThestandardofmateThedifferencesofpurposesofmarriageleadtothediscrepancyofthestandardofmates.TheEastChinesetraditionalstandardsofmateareinnocenceandwell-matchedfamilybackground.Innocenceisthebasicrequestputforwardbymen,becausetheythinksuchgirlswilltake
7、avowofchastity,respecttheparents-in-law,andkeepfamilyharmonious.Asforwell–matchedfamilybackground,itisalwaystheparents’demand.IntheclassicalChineselovenovels,thelovebetweenpoorscholarsandrichgirlswasoftenopposedbytheparents.Ifapoorgirlwantedtomarryarichman,shewouldonly
8、becomeaconcubine.Nowadays,peoplemaynotabidethetwobasicrequest,butmostoftheboysareinfavorofthosevirtuousandinnocentgir
