阅读材料人生的十个信条

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1、Don'tlie.Thetemptationtoembellishmaybeoverwhelming,buteventuallyyouronlineconnectionwillsussouttheturth.Ofcourse,there'snothingwrongwithshowingyourselfinthebestpossiblelight.Isn'tthatwhatonedoesonajobinterview?　　2.Don'tsendunsolicitedpictures.Instead,f

2、ocusonpotentialpartners'interestsandneedsandspeaktothem.Yourabilitytotolerateacat,forinstance,canoftenbemoreimportanttoacat-fancyingwomanthannineinchesofphotoshopenhancement.　　3.Don'tarrangetomeetwithoutseeingeachother'sphotobeforehand.There'snothingwo

3、rsethansittingatarendezvous,likeapuboracoffeeshop,waitingforyourcyberdatewithoutknowingwhattolookfor.　　4.Talktoeachotheronthephonebeforeyoumeet.JustbecauseyouthinkshewriteslikeEricaJong,you'dbesurprisedhowquicklyturnedoffyoucangetbysomeone'svoice,speak

4、ingmannerorchoiceofwords.Thinkofthelasttimeyouheardacacklinglaughringoutthrougharestaurantandhowembarrassedyoufeltforthepoorguywhohadtoputupwiththatvoiceallnight.　　SuggestsWithlin:“Talkwithsomeoneonceortwiceandthenmeetforcoffee--notadate,justsomethingt

5、ime-limited.Youneverknowwhatthepersonaldynamicsaregoingtobeuntilyou'veactuallymet,nomatterhowlongyoutalkonthephone.”Witlinsaysspendingalotoftimeonthephoneissimplyamatterofplayingitsafe.“It'ssomucheasiertogivegoodphonethantomeetinperson.”　　5.Knowwhatyou

6、'relookingforinacyberdate.Youdon'twanttoberomancingwhatyouthinkisaonenightstandwhileyourdateisauditioninghusbandmaterial.Ontheotherhand,youmaybeseekingalongertermmate,whilethepersonontheothersideofthemartiniturnsouttobemarriedandmerelylookingforfun.　

7、　6.Considerhowimportantphysicalattributesaretoyou.Ifyouworkoutoftenandliveanactivelifestyle,chancesareyou'relookingforafitbodiedpartner.　　Someonesimplybecauseshedoesn'tfitwithinyournarrowmarginsofbeauty.Butifyou'reclearaboutyourbodytypeneeds,rereadIte

8、m3.　　7.Don'tengageincybersexuntilafteryou'vemetandagreedtocontinuetherelationship.Youhavenoideawhoorwhatistappingawayonthekeysontheothersideofthescreen.Itcouldbesomeguygoingthroughamidlifecrists,orsomedesperadowhoisthesubjectofapolicest