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1、Passage1Youmusthavebeentroubledbywhentosay“Iloveyou”becauseitisoneofthegreatestpuzzlesinourlife.Whatifyousayitfirstandyourpartnerdoesn’tloveyouback?Oriftheydosayit,butyoudon’tfeeltheymeanit?Beingthefirsttodeclareyourlovecanbeeverracking(紧张）andriskyandcanleaveyoufeelingasvul
2、nerableasaturtle(海龟)withnoshell.Butisthepersonwhosaysitfirstreallyinapositionofweakness?Doesn’titpaytoholdback,playitcoolandwaituntiltheotherhalfhasshowntheirhandfast?“Areallygoodrelationshipshouldbeaboutbeingfairandbeingequal,”sayspsychologistSidneyCrown.“Butloveisseldomeq
3、ual.”Allrelationshipsgothroughpowerstrugglesbut,hesays,ifaloveimbalancecontinuesforyears,therotwillsetin.“Thatfeelingof‘I’vealwayslovedyoumore’maybesubverted(颠覆，破坏)foratime,butitnevergoesawaycompletelyanditoftenemergesinsquabbling(大声争吵).“Inlove,atleast,thesilent,withholding
4、typeisnotalwaysthemostpowerful.“Thestrongestoneinarelationshipisoftenthepersonwhofeelsconfidentenoughtotalkabouttheirfeelings,”sayseducationalpsychologistIngridCollins.PsychosexualtherapistPaulaHallagrees.“Theonewiththeupperhandisoftenthepersonwhotakestheinitiative.Infact,t
5、hepersonwhosays‘Iloveyou’firstmayalsobetheonewhosays‘I’mboredwithyou’first.”Hallbelievesthatmuchdependsonhow“Iloveyou”issaidandthemotivationofthepersonsayingit.“Isitsaidwhenthey’redrunk?Isitsaidbeforetheirpartnerfilesoffonholiday,andwhatitreallymeansis‘Pleasedon’tbeunfaithf
6、ultome’?Bysaying‘Iloveyou’,theyarereallysaying‘Doyouloveme?’Ifso,wouldn’titjustbemorehonesttosaythat. Collinsagreesthatintentioniseverything.“It’snotwhatissaid,buthowit’ssaid.Whatitcomesdowntoisthesincerityofthespeaker.”1.Whatisthemainideaofthispassage?A.Theimportanceof“Ilo
7、veyou”.B.Themeaningof“Iloveyou”.C.Thetimeofsaying“Iloveyou.D.Theplaceofsaying“Iloveyou”.2.Inthefirstsentencetheauthormeansthat________.A.itiseasytosay“Iloveyou”B.itishardtosay“Iloveyou”C.wehavemanytroublesinourlifeD.peopleusuallydonotknowwhentosay“Iloveyou”3.Accordingtothee
8、xpert,agoodrelationshipshouldbe________.A.fairandequalB.fairandkindC.powerfulandeq
