BEC第二辑TEST_2

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1、BEC中级第二辑Test2阅读1Sometimesitisnecessarytoinsistonfurtherexplanation.2Youshouldn'tfocusonyourresponsewhileothersarestillspeaking.3Peoplearereluctanttoadmitthattheydon'tlistenwell.4Therearebenefitsinseeingthingsfromthespeaker'sperspective.5Keenobservationofthespeak

2、ercansupportourlisteningskills.6Itisriskytothinkaboutadifferentissuewhilesomeoneisspeaking.7Peopledonotmindhearingtheirownviewssummarized.Goodlistener,bettermanagerAToooftenweaccuseothersofnotlistening,pretendingthatweourselvesarefaultless,yetinourheartsweknowth

3、atmanyofthemistakeswemakecomeaboutbecausewehaven'tlistenedcarefullyenough.Wegetthingswrongbecausewehaven'tquiteunderstoodwhatsomeonemeantwhentheyweretalkingtous.Anyonewhohasevertakentheminutesofalongmeetingwillknowhowharditistoremember-despitethebenefitofnotes-e

4、xactlywhateveryonesaid.Butsuccessdependsongettingthingsright-andthatmeanslistening.BListeningisnotthesamethingashearing;itisnotaneffortlessactivity.Itdemandsattentionandconcentration.Itmaymeanquizzingthespeakerforadditionalinformationorforclarification-itisalway

5、sbettertoaskthantocontinueregardlessandgetthingswrong.However,ifyouallowyourmindtowanderontosomethingelse,evenforafewminutes,you'llmisswhatthespeakerissaying-probablyattheverymomentwhenheorsheissayingsomethingcritical.Andnothavingheard,youwon'tknowyou'vemissedan

6、ythinguntilit'stoolate.CThemostcommonbadhabitwehaveistostartthinkingofwhatwearegoingtosayaboutthesubjectlongbeforetheotherspeakerhasfinished.Wethenstoplistening.Evenworse,thisoftenaddsrudenesstoinattentiveness,asonceyouhavedecidedwhattosaythereisafairchanceyouwi

7、llinterrupttosayit.Goodlistenersdon'tinterrupt.Infactitisoftenworthexplainingthemainideaofwhatyouhavejustbeentoldbeforegoingontomakeyourownpoints.Nobodyisoffendedbythisanditshowsthatyouhavelistenedwell.DAboveallbepatientandacceptthatmanypeoplearenotverygoodcommu

8、nicators.It'shelpfultorememberthatthewayspeoplemoveandpositionthemselveswhiletheyarespeakingcanrevealagreatdealaboutwhattheyaresaying.Equallyimportantlyyoushouldputyo