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1、The7HabitsofHighlyEffectivePeoplePowerfulLessonsinPersonalChangebyStephenR.CoveyHabitsarepowerfulfactorsinourlives.AccordingtoDr.StephenCovey,agraduateofHarvardBusinessSchoolandauthorofthetop-sellingThe7HabitsofHighlyEffectivePeople,ourcharacterisbasicall
2、yacompositeofourhabits.And,contrarytopopularbelief,breakingabadhabitinvolvesmorethanalittlewillpowerandafewminorchangesinourlives.Inactualfact,riddingourselvesofnegativehabitualtendenciesinvolvesaprocessoftremendouscommitment-onewhichactuallymirrorslife's
3、naturalstagesofdevelopment.Theprocessofmovingfromtotaldependence(infant)tocompleteinterdependence(adult)couldbethoughtofasprogressingalonganatural"maturitycontinuum."Weeachbeginlifeasaninfant,totallydependentonothers.Wearedirected,nurtured,andsustainedbyf
4、amilyandfriends.Withoutthisnurturing,wecouldonlyliveforafewhoursorafewdaysatmost.Butgradually,overtheensuingmonthsandyears,webecomemoreandmoreindependent-physically,emotionallyandfinancially-untileventuallyweareabletotakecareofourselves.Aswecontinuetogrow
5、andmaturewebecomeincreasinglyawarethatallofnatureisinterdependent,andthatthehigherreachesofourhumannaturehavetodowithformingandmaintainingrelationshipswithothers.Simplyputthen,dependentpeopleneedotherstogetwhattheywant.Independentpeoplecangetwhattheywantt
6、hroughtheirowneffortsandinterdependentpeoplecombinetheireffortswiththeeffortsofotherstoachievegreatthings.It'seasytoseethatindependenceismuchmorematurethandependencebut,accordingtoDr.Covey,itisnottheultimategoalineffectiveliving.Independentpeoplewhodonoth
7、avethematuritytothinkandactinterdependentlymaybegoodindividualproducers,buttheywon'tbegreatleadersorteamplayers.Theylackthequalitiesnecessarytotrulysucceedinmarriage,familyororganizationalreality.Yetinterdependenceisachoicethatonlyindependentpeoplecanmake
8、.Dependentpeoplecannotchoosetobeinterdependent.Theydon'thavethecharactertodoit;theydon'townenoughofthemselves.That'swhyparts1,2and3ofThe7HabitsofHighlyEffectivePeopledealwiththeconceptofself-mastery.Theyprovidetheto