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1、世界上最美丽英文49listentoyourheartYesterday,someoneaskedmewhatisthegreatestskillforsuccessfulsalespersontopossess. Ianswered,“theabilitytolisten.“ Heagreedwithme.Buttheabilitytolistenisn’tonlyimportantinselling.Itisalsoimportantwhenbuying,managing,talking
2、withourmatesorfriends.Infact,communicationisnexttoimpossibleoifwedon’tlisten.listeningisalseimportantwhenprayingandmeditating.Thenheartofaservantrequireslistening.Andifdiscoveringourpurposeistheprocessofdiscoveringhowwecanmostimpacttheworldthroughoff
3、eringservice(theactofservant-hood)thenlisteningmusttrulybeanassettodiscoveringourpurposeaswell. Manypsychiatristexplainthewaytocommunicatebetter(andsucceedinrelationships)isbylisteningbetter.Bynotthinking,justbeinginvolvedinlisteningadroitlytoanothe
4、rperson,wemayexperienceanewwayof3knowingthispersonforwhotheyreallyare. Manymotivationalspeakersandpsychologiststalkaboutgoingafter“whatyoudesire“asdiscoveringyourpurpose.IntheTaothereisathoughtthat“whenthereisnodesirethereispeace“(fromTaoTeChing).Kn
5、owingwhatwedesireisinsufficient. Perhaps,awaytolistenistoremove“desire“fromourmind.Insteadoffocusingonwhatwewant,wemaybealert...aware...payingattentiontothesignalsourbody,mind,spiritandheart.Speaktous.Whenwewalkinnatureandsaynothing,natuertalkstous.
6、Thenwindblowsquietlythroughthelimbsonthetrees.Grassesrustleandleavesblowacrosstheground.Thecloudsmoveabouttheskyandcastshadowsworkingwiththesunshiningbehindthem.Inthesameway,ourbodyspeakstouswhenwebecomequiet,meditative,andshutdownour“conscience-leve
7、l“mind.Ineliminatingthechatlernoiseinourheadandfocusingonthequiet,wecaneventuallyreachastateofbeingwhereweareawareofourinner3needs. Thistakestime.Itcanbeaccomplishedthroughmeditation.Ican’tbeaccomplishedbywritingdownlistsofgoals(ourdesires)norcanitb
8、eaccomplishedbytellingotherpeoplewhatwethink(speakinginnotlistening) Itrequireslistening.Let’sthinkofonequestiontoclosethischapter.WhenamIthehappiest?WhenamImostrelaxed?WhenamImostexcited?WhenamIfeelmostloved? Theanswertothisquestion,inlistening,is