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有些时候生活不是那么如意，失业、离婚、挂科都可能让你感到无助与挫败。其实成功就是由失败累积而成的，重要的事失败后仍能充满热情地继续。有时候自己认为的失败其实现实并没有那么遭，如果你还能满足以下的15条，那你其实过得比你想象的幸福。Let’sfaceit,sometimeslifefeelslikeit’sfallingapartattheseams. Perhapsyou’velostyourjob,oryourmarriagejustended,oryoufailedtopassanexamandnowyouaresimplyfeelinghelplessanddefeated.WinstonChurchilloncesaid:“Successconsistsofgoingfromfailuretofailurewithoutloosingenthusiasm.”TodayIwanttoremindyouwhy,eventhoughyoumaybefeelingabitlikeafailure,youaremostdefinitelynot. Hereare15signsthatshowyouaredoing well inlifeeventhoughyoudon’tthinkso!1. You’velivedandlearned你曾经历过，学到过东西No one saidlifewaseasyandwhilethebumpsontheroadmayhurt,therideisdefinitelyworthit. Thinkbacktoyourfailuresanddefeats.Youmustknowtheywereallforareasonandpartofagranderplan. Eachdifficultyhasledyoutowhereyouareattoday,eachtrialhasmoldedyouintothemagnificent,resilient,personthatyouare.Continuetomoveforwardinfaith,hopeandlove,knowingthateachexperiencehastaughtyouwhatyouneedtobecomewhoyouwereborntobe.2. Youhaveacomfybedtosleepin你有一张舒适的床I’llneverforgetaninterviewdoneonNPRawhileback.AyoungHaitianmothertoldherstory.Shehadlittle onesthatconstantlywonderedwhentheywouldbeableto eat andgotoschoollikealltheotherkidsaroundthem.Whatimpactedmethemostaboutthisstorywastheirsleepingarrangements:theyalllaidonthedirtfloor,andatnightifitrainedeveryonewouldhavetogetup,grabwhateverwasleftoftheir“bed”andmovetoadryspot. ThisstorygavemeawholenewappreciationformybedandIhopeitdoesthesamethingforyou!3. Youstrivetobebetter你在努力变得更优秀 Thefactyouarefeelingabitdownbecauseyouhaven’tachievedwhatyouwanttoachieveshowsyouaretrying.Inthegrandschemeofthings,youalwaysstrivetobebetterandforaslongasyoucontinuetodothat,happiness,successandlovewillcome–justdon’tgiveup.Einsteinoncesaid:“It’snotthatIamsosmart,it’sthatIstaywithproblemslonger.”Hanginthereandneverstopstrivingtobeallyoucanbe!4. Youhave/hadajob你有或曾有过工作Whicheverwayyoulookatthis one,itisstillawin-winsituationforyou.Ifyouhaveajob:kudos!Keepatitandknowthatyouarerichlyblessed. Ifyourecentlylostyourjob,don’tfret!You’vegottenajobbefore,youcangetonealloveragain.Perhapsthisistheopportunityyou’vebeenwaitingfortodosomethingyoutrulylovetodo.Keepsearching,keephoping,andknowthatyoucanaccomplishtheseeminglyimpossibleifyouworkhardandbelieveyoucan.5. Knowledgeisatyourfingertips你可以随时学东西Inthis day andage,youcanlearnanythingandeverythingyouwant.Knowledgeistrulyatyourfingertips!Sinceknowledgeispower,seizethatpowerandletitassistyouinthepursuitofyourdreams.Takeadvantageofallthe“learning”opportunitiesthatcomeyourway.6. Youhavefoodtoeat你不缺食物Sometimesabitmorethanyoushould!Foodissuchanoverlookedblessing,yetifyoumissitforafewhoursyoustartfeelingthenecessityofit.Takethetimetoenjoyyournextmeal,whateverthatis,savoreachbiteandremindyourselfthathappinessisfoundinenjoyingthesimplethingsoflife,suchas eatingapieceofpie.7. Youhavethepowerofchoose你有选择的权力Aristotleoncesaid:“Excellenceisneveranaccident.Itisalwaystheresultofhighintention,sincereeffort,andintelligentexecution;itrepresentsthewise choiceofmanyalternatives–choice,notchance,determinesyourdestiny.” NeedIsaymore?Claimyourpowertochoose.8. You’veexperiencedlovebutterfliesorsomethinglikeit你有过怦然心动的感觉Ahh!Tobeinlove…tofeelyourwholebodyliterallyreacttothat moment whenyousimplystealaglancefromthe one youareinfatuatedwith.Experiencingsuchanatural,basicandsimple,yetpassionatemomentwillgiveyoumemoriesthatwill last alifetime.Youarebeyondblessedtohaveexperiencedsuchasublimemoment!9. Youhavecleanwater你有干净的水可喝可用This one shouldnotbeoverlooked.DoyoueverwatchBearGrillsandallhisdesperatemovestogetjustafewouncesofmuddywater?Therearealsopeoplewhoaren’tgoingwithoutwaterbecausetheyhaveasurvivalshow,butinsteadbecauseitistheirharshreality.Around783millionpeopledonothaveaccesstocleanwateraroundtheglobe.Bethankfulandfullyawarethatyouaredoing well inlifeevenifyoudon’tthinkso.10. Youhaveadream你有梦想Whateveryourdreamis,it’syours.Youhavetheabilitytoembraceitandcreateit.Don’tgiveupondreamingoronyourdreams.Theyarewhatlife’sbestthingsaremadeupof.11. Yourhappinessisreal你的幸福是真实的Youhavethepowertochoosehappinessforyourlifeineverythingyoudoandineverycircumstance.Yourhappinessisdefinedbywhetherornotyouareabletodiscernandseizeanopportunitytofeelhappy.Itmaybesomethingassimpleasenjoyingthelaughterofachild.12. Youhaveclothestowear你有衣服可穿 Andsometimestoomanyoptions,whichtrumpsyourproductivity,butthatisanothersubject.Thebottomlineis,youdon’thavetogonakedthroughthestreetsorpoorlydressed.Youenjoytheblessingofbeingproperlydressedforeveryoccasionandhavetheabilitytoshieldyourbodyfromtheelements.Really,lifewouldget very coldwithoutclothes.13. Youhavetheabilitytoforgive你能够原谅别人Canyouimaginewhatthis worldwouldlooklikewithoutforgiveness?Nevermindtheworld,justyourlife!Imaginehowboggeddown,bitterandunhappyyouwouldbeifyoudidnothavetheabilitytoforgiveother’smistakesas well asyourown.Itwould make itnearlyimpossibletoliveandmostdefinitelyanightmaretomoveonwithlifewhendifficultiesarose.Youhavetheuniquegiftofforgivingandmovingon.14. Youbelieveinsomethinggreaterthanyourself你相信自己会更好Forallthetimesyouweresocaughtupinyourownlittleworldanddrowninginakiddiepoolversionoflife’sproblems,you’vehadtheabilitytostepbackandrealizethatyouhavesomethinggreatertoliveforthanyourself.WhetheritisGod,yourfamilyorfriends,youcanbelievethatyourpurposeistoachievesomethingthatwillbeforthegreatergoodortosimplybringhonortoyourGod.15. Youhavetheopportunitytobuildglobalfriendships你有机会和世界各国的人交朋友Intoday’s day andage,yourbestfriendcanliterallybefivethousandmilesawayyetyoucanstillexperiencethebeautyofthatfriendship.Youhavetheuniquecapacitytobeacquaintanceswith one personinalmosteverycountryoftheworld,somethingnoothergenerationbeforethe1900’swaseasilyabletodo.AsfarasIamconcerned,yourglobalabilityto make friendsisdefinitelyasignyouaredoing well inlife,evenifyoudon’tthinkso.
