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5、yL.Greif.p.cm.Includesbibliographicalreferencesandindex.ISBN978-0-19-532642-01.Malefriendship.I.Title.BF575.F66G7352008158.2’5—dc222008004182987654321PrintedintheUnitedStatesofAmericaonacid-freepaperAcknowledgmentsIreceivedenormousencouragementfromsomanypeo
6、pleItalkedtoaboutthebook.Everyonehasastorytotellabouthisownfriendships.Recently,a48-year-oldreportertoldmeabouthisclosestfriends,allofwhomhemetinfirstgrade.Theyhaveasetofrulesunderwhichtheyoperatetomaintaintheirfriendship.Oneofthemisthatanytimethreeofthemare
7、together,theymustcallthefourthfriendsoeveryonestaysincluded.SandraBullock(everythingIreadaboutmoviestarsistrue,right?)appar-entlyhasarulewithherfriendsthattheyincurafineiftheygoformorethan48hourswithouttouchingbasewitheachother.Theseareallstrategiestostaycon
8、nectedwithfriendsatatimewhenfriendshipsarebeingputtothetestbycompetingdemandsonourtime.Iwishtothankallthosewhohavespokentomebothinformallyandformallyabouttheirfriendships.ManystudentsattheUniversityofM
