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1、5到10岁小孩子的教育Let'stalkaboutthechildren'sstudyindetai1.Theparentsofthemostheadachesisthechildrendonotlovelearning,lovetoplay,eventhoughwe，replayingislearning,butafterall,childrenandsocietyshouldhavearealrelationship,istochildrenandsocietyintofullcontact,co
2、ntactandsocietymustlearntolearnhumansocialculture,music,painting,architectureandsoon.Later,thechildrenof5~10yearsold,hisbrainfunctionhasbeenformed,itisalsobeginningtodevelop,5-10yearsoldchildren，sselfcognitionisnotcompletelyformedselfidentity.Therearema
3、nyparentsinthisimportantperiodof5-10yearstodosomethingforthechildren,becausethechildrenofparentsgenerallyacceptinformation,thisisthebestwitnessduringtheperiodofchildrenlovelearning,loveofknowledge,afterthisperiod,youwantyourchildrentolearntoloveisverydi
4、fficult,thistimemomanddaditiseasytoaffectthechild・Therearesomestrategieswecanthinkabout,firstofall,toseewhat5~10yearoldchildrendo,nottobecriticized,andwhattodotobecriticizedAlotofchildrencanplayathomeandwatchTVfreely,butwhentheyarestudying,momanddadwill
5、bethere.Doyouhavethiskindofsituation?Whenyoustudy,youwilllethimsitstraight,handsshouldbeputaway,eyesawayfromthebookalittlebit,orwillbeshort-sighted,andthewordwrongwillscoldhim,ifthehomeworkisnotfinished,willhithim.Butwouldyouhurthimwhilehewasplaying?Are
6、yougoingtoteachhimhowtoplay?Areyougoingtocriticizehim?Ifachildcandosomethingandmaybeaccusedofdoingsomethingelse,hewillbefullofjoyandfreedom・Whatdoyousupposehewilllike?Parentsalwaysthinkso.Asapsychologist,Ihavetheresponsibilitytoremindparentsthatwhen5-10
7、isachild,itistimetoformaninternalrule・Atthisstage,manyparentstalkingabouthissonsaidhowclever,shinewithhappiness,mybaby,howbeautiful,howdoyouaskhim,butlearninghow?Heisnothappy,saidmysonisnotlovelearning,notclevertoright・Parentsusuallydonotteachhim,donoth
8、ithiminotherareas,butinthestudytohithim,doingsojustdestroythechild，smotivation.Thistimethechildrenhavenoreasontosay,hedidnotknowwhatisgood,whatgood,goodresolution,hisbrainisnotformed,thestructureofhissystemisnotcomplete,heismorec
