聪明老人幸福十诫

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1、聰明老人幸福十誡“Tentaboostohappiness”fortheintelligentagedpersons一、不要再替成年子女操心，才不會碎碎唸。Don’tbeconcernedaboutadultchildrenanymore,otherwise,cannotstoptheannoyingchatters.二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」，以免顧人怨。Don’tregardtheadultchildrenasofunderageandserveasaguardianforthem,sotoavoidincurringcomplaints

2、.三、不必事事都「非知道不可」，尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。Nonecessarytoknoweverything,payrespecttotheprivacyandtherightofdecision-makingofadultchildren.四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園地，才不致天天望穿秋水。Don’tregardchildrenandgrandchildrenasacenteroflife,lookforpersonalsocialcircles,sotoavoidtrappingyourselfinthedilemmaofanx

3、iousexpectationanddisappointmentdaily.五、不要逢人就訴苦，寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。Raiseahabitofwriting,painting,exercising,singingtosublimeyourmoodbyartsandcreationratherthancomplaintopeoplecomingacross六、不要凡事抱怨，多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。Moreadmiration,lesscomplaintsandappreciatewhatotherpeoplehave

4、doneforpleasingyou.七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突，這樣只會惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。Don’tinvolveinthedisputebetweengrandchildrenandadultchildren,thisactjustcausesadverseeffectsinabadcircleandhurtyourgrandchildren.八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，領了藥要服藥，治不好的要忍耐。Don’tcryoversickness,justgotoseeadoctorandtakethenecessarymedicalpi

5、llsasprescribed,andbepatientiffailedtocure九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊的人，免得最後連他也走了!Don’tbeskepticaltootherstoomuch,begratefultothepersonwholeftaroundyou, otherwise,hewillgoawayfromyoutooeventually十、要多多親近神，有堅定的信仰，對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。Participateinreligiousactivitiesoften,besticktobeliefandtakepl

6、easant,optimisticattitudestowardthefuture.七度蝈蝈推荐其博客：http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/1373747324