专业学位硕士研究生英语教程04

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1、Unit4PreviewWeallhaveexperiencedbetrayalorhurt.Somechoosetocarrygrudges,nurseoldwoundsorrelivepasthumiliations.Prideandil--vanitybuildsawall;weevenshutthedoorforanexplanation.Meetwith11someoneolderandwiseonTuesdays,andwe'llcometoknowtheartoflife,thatholdingontotheangerconsumesthehappine

2、ss,whilelettinggoofhatredinvitesmoreloveintolife.Soputasidetheanger,letreliefwashoverus,andmoveforwardwithourlifebysimplyacceptinganapology.PartITextReadingWarm-upI.BeingamentorIfyouwanttobreakoutordosomethingextraordinarythatyouwouldnotdoonyourowninitiative,you'dbetterhaveamentor,anexp

3、eriencedandtrustedfriendandaprudentadvisor.Morespecifically,whatdoyouthinkmakeagoodmentor?StepOneTheroleofthementorismultifaceted.Workinpairstodecideonthespecificpersonalitytraitsthatmakeagoodmentor,andexplainyourchoices.Amentormustbe:aged/aneffectivelistener/sincereandcommitted/punctua

4、l/emotionallyinvolved/trustworthy/arrogant/aresponsiblerolemodel/loyal/honest/knowledgeable/persuasive/agoodtalker/independent/self-esteemed/(orothers)StepTwo·Trytobeamentor,andgiveyouradvicetohelpothersoutofthefollowingdilemmas:·Stayinghomeorgoingabroadforfurtherdevelopment?·Quittingth

5、ecurrentjobtostartabusinessorstayingonitforpromotion?·Beingtoleranttothoseirritationsortakingrevenge?·Makingupforthemistakesorlettingthepastbethepast?·Makingmoneyatallcostnoworseekingfunbeforeitistoolate?II.Areyouforgiving?Ticktheboxesyouagreewithinthefollowingquestionnaire.1.Ifyoudosom

6、ethingstraightaway,doyouforgiveyourself?YesNoSometimesI'Never2.Isitimportanttoforgiveyourselfandotherswhenmistakesaremade?Yes'NoISometimesIINotsureI3.Howdoyoufeelwhenyouhaveforgivensomeoneforsomething?10KIINotsureIIVeryhappyIExcitedIProudofmyself4.Areyoureluctanttoforgive?IYes'INoI'Some

7、timesI'Never145.IfyouansweredYesinabovequestion,thisisbecauseyou.(Youmaytickasmanyboxesasyouwant)areonlythinkingofnegativethingsIIdon'tvalueyourselforothersenoughhavenotbeenshownhowtoforgiveIII.Areyouapersonwhohangsontopainfulmemories,orareyouabletoforgetandforgive?·Thinkofapar