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1、浅议ThefamilyisaplaceinwhichchildrenlearntoParentingandChildThefamilyisaplaceinationabouttheatureindividuals,andtheymayfeelfrustratedintryingtodiscoverthebestent.Parentingstylesarebroadpatternsofchildrearingpractices,values,andbehaviors.AccordingtoDianaBaum
2、rind,fourtypesofparentingstylesareindulgent(moreresponsivethandemanding),authoritarian(highlydemandinganddirectivebutnotresponsive),authoritative(bothdemandingandresponsive),andindulgent(loandingness)Childrenfromauthoritarianfamilyareoftenaggressive,fearf
3、ul,andanxious,theyoftenhaveunicationskills.Childrenassociatedindulgentfamilyareaggressive,spoiled,andnonpliant,theyhavedifficultiesinpeerrelations.Childrenassociatedotionsareoftenaffectedbyparenting.Parentsarekids’firstimportantteachers.AccordingtoJohnGot
4、tman,“Parentsarekids’emotioncoachers,andtheyteachtheirkidsstrategiestodealorethanIQ,emotionalaineone’ssuccessandhappinessinallilyrelationships”(P20-21). Soit’sveryimportanttousegoodparentingathome.Authoritativeparentingsisthebestparentingstyle,becauseitis
5、goodforchildren’semotiondevelopment,andbecauseauthoritativeparentsacknounconditionally,theycansetacceptablestandards,andtheyhelptopromotechildren’sindependence. Authoritativeparentscanunderstandtheirchildren’sfeelingandteachthemho.Theyoftenhelpthemtofinda
6、ppropriateoutletstosolveproblems.JohnGottmansaid,“Theydon’tignoreordenytheirkids’feelings.Nordotheybelittleorridiculetheirchildrenforemotionalexpression”(P38).Theyhaveknople,mysonfeltverysadandovetoanothercity.Hetalkedtomeaboutthat:“Mybestfriendovenextmon
7、th.canIplaysorrytohearthat.Don’teisnotfarfromhere.andhecanebacktovisitus.Also,youcanmakeanothergoodfriend.Youaboutmysadness.Aftertalking,hefeltbetterandbegantoknootionsandthoseoftheirlovedone.JohnGottmanbelieves,“Theycanseevalueintheirchildren’snegativeem
8、otions;theyhavemorepatiencetobeepathizing,lettingthemandfriendlyfamilyclimate.Thereisgoodmunicationbetily.Goodmunicationhelpschildrenandparentstodevelopconfidence,feelingsofself-ostimportantresponsibilitiesasparents
