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1、——————————————————————————LessonOneCourtesy:KeytoaHappierWorld Dr.NormanVincentPealeLearningGuide 人生活在群体之中，为了解决自己的衣食住行，处处都要与他人打交道。即使是在英国人称之为“自己的城堡”的家里，人们也必须和睦相处，才能相安无事。风烟四起，舌战连绵，轻者使团体和家庭面和心不和，重者会导致团体瓦解，家庭破裂。处理好人际关系的秘诀是什么？本文作者在多年心理咨询工作中得出结论：以礼待人。他认为，不可小看如何对待他人一事，礼貌不
2、仅仅是个人举止问题，而且也反映一个人的人生观。他还提出了一些化解矛盾和冲突的具体建议，你不妨试试。 1①Manyyearsagotryingtohelppeoplewitheverykindoftroubleleftmewithonesureconviction:incaseaftercasethedifficultycouldhavebeenovercome—ormightneverhavearisen—ifthepeopleinvolvedhadjusttreatedoneanotherwithcommoncourtes
3、y. ①Manyyearsagotryingtohelppeoplewitheverykindoftroubleleftmewithonesureconviction... 多年以前，帮助人们解决各种各样问题的过程使我深信...... Tryingtohelppeoplewitheverykindoftroublecausedmetobelieveonethingfirmly… 2①Courtesy,politeness,goodmanners—callitwhatyouwill,thesupplyneversee
4、mstoequalthedemand."②It'snotsomuchwhatmyhusbandsays,"atearfulwifeconfides,"asthewayhesaysit.Whydoeshehavetoyellatme?Ihatemyboss,"agrim-facedofficeworkermutters."Henevershowsappreciationforanything.""Allwegetfromourteenagers,"aworriedparentsays,"isamoodysullenness."
5、 ①Courtesy,politeness,goodmanners－callitwhatyouwill,thesupplyneverseemstoequalthedemand. 礼貌也好，客气，或文明举止也好，无论你称它什么，其供应似乎总是小于需求。 Whetheryoucallitcourtesy,orpoliteness,orgoodmanner,people'sneedforitalwaysfargreaterthantheyshow.(peoplepracticelesscourtesythantheyshou
6、ld.) ②It'snotsomuchwhatmyhusbandsays,“atearfulwifeconfides,”asthewayhesaysit…. 一位泪流满面的妻子向我透露说，“（使我伤心的）倒不是我丈夫说的那些话，而是他说话时的态度...... Awifeintearstoldme,“Whatmademesosadwasnotwhathesaid,buttherudewayhesaidit…” 3Suchcomplaintsarenotlimitedtopeoplewhositinmystudy.
7、Humanbeingseverywherehungerforcourtesy.①"Goodmanners,"saidRalphWaldoEmerson,"arethehappywayofdoingthings."②Andthereverseisequallytrue.Badmannerscanruinaday—orwreckafriendship. ①“Goodmanners,”saidRalphWaldoEmerson,“arethehappywayofdoingthings.” 爱默生说：“礼貌是愉快行事的方式。”
8、 Goodmannersarethesuitable/appropriatewayofdoingthings ②Andthereverseisequallytrue.Badmannerscanruinaday-----orwreckafriendship. 反之一样（
