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1、TED英语演讲稿:二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴(附翻译) wheniwasinmy20s,isawmyveryfirstpsychotherapyclient.iwasa studentinclinicalpsychologyatberkeley.shewasa26-year-oldwomannamedalex.nowalexwalkedintoherfirstsessionwearingjeansandabigslouchytop,andshedroppedontothecouchinmyofficeandkickedoffherflatsandto
2、ldmeshewastheretotalkaboutguyproblems.nowwheniheardthis,iwassorelieved.myclassmategotanarsonistforherfirstclient.(laughter)andigotatwentysomethingwhowantedtotalkaboutboys.thisithoughticouldhandle. butididn'thandleit.withthefunnystoriesthatalexwouldbringtosession,itwaseasyform
3、ejusttonodmyheadwhilewekickedthecandowntheroad."thirty'sthenew20,"alexwouldsay,andasfarasicouldtell,shewasright.workhappenedlater,marriagehappenedlater,kidshappenedlater,evendeathhappenedlater.twentysomethingslikealexandihadnothingbuttime. butbeforelong,mysupervisorpushedmeto
4、pushalexaboutherlovelife.ipushedback. isaid,"sure,she'sdatingdown,she'ssleepingwithaknucklehead,butit'snotlikeshe'sgoingtomarrytheguy." andthenmysupervisorsaid,"notyet,butshemightmarrythenextone.besides,thebesttimetoworkonalex'smarriageisbeforeshehasone." that'swhatpsycholo
5、gistscallan"aha!"moment.thatwasthemomentirealized,30isnotthenew20.yes,peoplesettledownlaterthantheyusedto,butthatdidn'tmakealex's20sadevelopmentaldowntime.thatmadealex's20sadevelopmentalsweetspot,andweweresittingthereblowingit.thatwaswhenirealizedthatthissortofbenignneglectwas
6、arealproblem,andithadrealconsequences,notjustforalexandherlovelifebutforthecareersandthefamiliesandthefuturesoftwentysomethingseverywhere. thereare50milliontwentysomethingsintheunitedstatesrightnow.we'retalkingabout15percentofthepopulation,or100percentifyouconsiderthatnoone's
7、gettingthroughadulthoodwithoutgoingthroughtheir20sfirst. raiseyourhandifyou'reinyour20s.ireallywanttoseesometwentysomethingshere.oh,yay!y'all'sawesome.ifyouworkwithtwentysomethings,youloveatwentysomething,you'relosingsleepovertwentysomethings,iwanttosee—okay.awesome,twentysom
8、ethingsreallymatter. soispecializeintwentysomethingsbecausei