写在30岁的人生建议

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1、Y-CombinatorCEO：写在30岁的人生建议2015-11-23SamAltmanIturned30lastweekandafriendaskedmeifI’dfiguredoutanylifeadviceinthepastdecadeworthpassingon.I’msomewhathesitanttopublishthisbecauseIthinktheselistsusuallyseemhollow,buthereisacleanedupversionofmyanswer:1)Neverputyourfamily,friends

2、,orsignificantotherlowonyourprioritylist.Preferahandfuloftrulyclosefriendstoahundredacquaintances.Don’tlosetouchwitholdfriends.Occasionallystayupuntilthesunrisestalkingtopeople.Haveparties.重视家庭和朋友。有几个知己胜过一百个熟人。不要和老朋友失去联系。偶尔不妨彻夜长谈。多聚会。2)Lifeisnotadressrehearsal—thisisprobably

3、it.Makeitcount.Timeisextremelylimitedandgoesbyfast.Dowhatmakesyouhappyandfulfilled—fewpeoplegetrememberedhundredsofyearsaftertheydieanyway.Don’tdostuffthatdoesn’tmakeyouhappy(thishappensmostoftenwhenotherpeoplewantyoutodosomething).Don’tspendtimetryingtomaintainrelationships

4、withpeopleyoudon’tlike,andcutnegativepeopleoutofyourlife.Negativityisreallybad.Don’tletyourselfmakeexcusesfornotdoingthethingsyouwanttodo.人生不是带妆彩排。要分秒必争。生命有限，时光飞逝。做自己开心并且有成就感的事情。很少有人死后还会被记住。不要做那些不开心的事（特别是别人要求你做的事）。不要花时间在不喜欢的人身上。远离消极的人。消极极其有害。想做的事情，不要找借口不做。3)Howtosucceed:pick

5、therightthingtodo(thisiscriticalandusuallyignored),focus,believeinyourself(especiallywhenotherstellyouit’snotgoingtowork),developpersonalconnectionswithpeoplethatwillhelpyou,learntoidentifytalentedpeople,andworkhard.It’shardtoidentifywhattoworkonbecauseoriginalthoughtishard.

6、如何成功：选择做正确的事情（这至关重要而又经常被忽视）、专注、相信自己（特别是别人告诉你不行的时候）、和能帮助你的人建立联系、学会识别人才，勤奋工作。找到自己想做的事情不容易，开始的想法总是比较粗糙。4)Onwork:it’sdifficulttodoagreatjobonworkyoudon’tcareabout.Andit’shardtobetotallyhappy/fulfilledinlifeifyoudon’tlikewhatyoudoforyourwork.Workveryhard—asurprisingnumberofpeople

7、willbeoffendedthatyouchoosetoworkhard—butnotsohardthattherestofyourlifepassesyouby.Aimtobethebestintheworldatwhateveryoudoprofessionally.Evenifyoumiss,you’llprobablyendupinaprettygoodplace.Figureoutyourownproductivitysystem—don’twastetimebeingunorganized,workingatsuboptimalt

8、imes,etc.Don’tbeafraidtotakesomecareerrisks,especiallyearlyon.Mostpeoplepic