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1、批评孩子最忌讳这三件事（Criticizingchildrenisthemosttabooofthesethreethings）Criticismofchildrenmosttabooofthesethreethings,.Txtchildhoodthinkfatherisnotsimple,andthenfeelthatheisnotsimple,andthenfeelthathischildisnotsimple.Themoreyouwanttoknowwhetheryouhaveforgottensomething,theb
2、etteryouremember.Jiaoziyoufang:Criticismofthechildisthemosttabooofthesethreethings[smallteacher]postedon2010-06-0913:40:15[texting][table]CriticizingchildrenisthemosttabooofthesethreethingsLovelychildrenlikethespringtreesgrowfreely,althoughfullofvitality,butalsoinevit
3、ablygrowfromtimetotimeaffectingthegrowthof"badbranch"--tomakemistakes,then,asa"gardener"howshouldparentsdo?Criticismofchildrencannotbe,norabuse.Whatattitudewillyoutakewhenfacingachild'smistakesandevenmistakes?CriticizethechildthreetabooTabooone:shouldnothandoutalsosel
4、l-thefleshofthemosthurtthechildself-esteemThe5yearoldMaryplayingshowedgreatrandomness,correctfingering,teacher'shandandaskedtheslightestimprintedleftinhermind,seemsasthoughitneverseemstogotoschool.Themotherintheeyes,anxiousheart,againandagaintoremindhimselfanddemonstr
5、ation,canputaXuanxuanuncooperativeattitudeonthestooltosquirm,whiledrinking,whileonthetoilet,aftertwominutesandyelltiredtorest.Errorcriticism:Yourangerfinallybrokethroughthebottomlineofpatience,themotherofaslapinthepast,allhandimmediatelyred,persuasionandeducationupgra
6、desforthepunishmentofforce.Scarsleftbehind:Fundamentallyspeaking,thepunishmentofforcecannotsolveanyproblems,canonlymakebothsidesoftheconflicts,whichislikelytocontinuelearninginthefiststrandedhalfway;parents,thechild'sself-esteemisalsoplayedtoformPoguanposhuaisufferabi
7、g,psychological,andevenforallthecriticismthatitisbothinvulnerability.Anotherimmediateconsequenceofthisis:inwhatwayyoutreatyourchild,thechildwilltreatyouandthepeoplearoundhimthesameway-copyingviolenceiseasy.Becauseofthebadexampleofparents,whenchildrenfacetheconflictbet
8、weenthemselvesandtheirchildrenindependently,thefirstreactioninthemindis"startfirstandbestrong."".Pruningisgood:Toupgradecrit
