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1、越是爱的深,越是容易吵架（Thedeeperthelove,theeasieritistoquarrel）Inlife,manyyoungfriendsfinditdifficulttoreasonwithpeoplewholoveeachother.Thisarticleisforeveryonetoexplainthisphenomenon:SelfwilledisbecauseofemotionWhetherornotapersoninloveisabletocommunicatebetterisnotalwaysnecessary.Sometimes,peop
2、lewholoveeachothercannotcommunicate.LinDaiyulovesJiaBaoyubest.Hedoesn'tlovehimterribly,butwhenhemeets,hecries.Themoreyouloveeachother,theeasieritistoquarrel.XueBaochai,whydon'tyouarguewithJiaBaoyu?Becauseshedoesn'tlovehim.Itisagreatreferencetomenthatgirlslikewhomtheyquarrelwith!Apersono
3、fanotherperson'sfeelingsifverygeneral,verypolite,verypolite,veryrespectfulofthepeopletellyousomethingdifferent,thereisatendencytoseekcommonground;andfeelingbetter,moreconcernforeachother,atendencytoseekmorestrong,reachedapeak,whichisthehighestpointonthenearfullfinding-equal.Knowingeacho
4、ther'sfeelingsandfeelingsstrongly,theyarelessreasonable,demanding,andsomewhatautocratic.Thissituationalsoexistsbetweenmotherandchild.Motherslovetheirchildrenbest,butcommunicationisthehardest.Feelinggoodisnotreasonable.Loveisstrongfeeling.Loveandreasonarecontradictory,andstrongemotioniss
5、trongunreasonable,whichisalsoakindofdefectofhumannature,butthebeautyofhumannatureisalsointhisirrational.RespectthelogicthatisdifferentfromyoursTheUnitedStateshasatalkabouttheexchangeofbooks,thefirstchapterfromtheoutset,youmustestablishaconceptofobject-youcommunicate,whetherstudents,coll
6、eagues,parents,teachers,relatives,ornegotiator,youdon'tthinkheisthesameasyourpeople.Infrontofthesamescene,yousee,theymaynotsee;theysee,youmaynotsee.Thelogicofhisthinkingisalsodifferentfromyours.Nomatterhowdifferentheisfromyou,youshouldrespecthim.Tolearntocommunicateistolearntorespectthe
7、logicthatisdifferentfromyours.AnarticleintheAmericanJournalofcontemporarypsychologyspeaksaboutdomesticviolenceintheUnitedstates.Althoughtwopeopleloveeachother,buttwopeoplearedifferent:first,themanhasaghost.Men,accordingtoresearch,haveatendencytolovemuch.Second,awoman'smouthismo
