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1、台湾著名教育家许宜铭演讲（SpeechbyXuYiming,afamouseducatorinTaiwan）SpeechbyXuYiming,afamouseducatorinTaiwanSpeechbyXuYiming,afamouseducatoroftheBayTopic:selectedspeechesbyMr.XuYiming,afamouseducatorinTaiwan(ZT)Copyright:timeforsubmittingoriginalworks:10:55:01October22ndInNovember2002,IwenttoNewZ
2、ealandbecausemytwodaughterswerestudyinginnewzealand.WhenIwenttoknowshehassomethingimportanttotellme,becausesheandherboyfriendhasbeentalkedaboutforsixyears,sowhenIgo,herboyfriendisveryformalentertainmetoeatdinner,mymother,mysisterwenttothe.Atdinner,hetoldmeaboutagoodmeal,saidhesaidth
3、ereisaveryimportantthingtomealonetotalkabout,thenIdrinkcoffee,Ithinkheisverywellprepared,soIsaid:Okay,I'llgotodrinkcoffee.Weorderedcoffee,andhesaid,"he'sgoingtogothroughmyconsentandgetengagedtomydaughter.".Iasked,"soyouaskedmeoutforcoffee,whatwouldyouliketoaskme?"Hesaid,hehasthreequ
4、estionstoaskme,thefirstquestion,ifIwereyourson-in-law,yousatisfiedwithme,notsatisfied?I'vehaddinnerwithhim,andIhaven'tseentheprincipleofbeingaman,ofcourse,Idon'tknowhim,butthat'sagoodquestion.Isaid,don'tsayyouareamanofstrikingappearancetoday,afewmetersinheight,looksgood,isadentist,y
5、ouareallaspectsoftheconditionsisalsoverygood,evenifyouareatramp,whenmydaughterandIloveyou,Iwillbesatisfiedonthisson-in-law.Heaskedmewhy?IsaythatbecauseItrustmydaughter,sheisareallylovesher,sheknowsisresponsiblefortheirownneeds,fromsmalltolarge,Itoldhimitwasasupporterbehind,sosheknew
6、verywell,whateverhechoosesiswhatperson,Iwillbesatisfied.Idon'thavemuchcontactwithyou,butI'msureyou'resatisfiedbecauseyoupickedher.Thesecondquestion,whatdoyouhopeformeifIbecomeyoursoninlaw?Myson-in-lawistheonlyhopeyouhaveanydissatisfactionwithmydaughter,youcantellhimnow,don'twaitunti
7、laftertheengagementtoldhertobemorefairtoher;ifyoubecameengagedtoherarenotsatisfiedwithwhatisbeforemarriage,tellhimtobemorefairtoher;ifyougetmarriedaftersheisnotsatisfiedwithwhat,inchildrenbeforetellinghimthistoher,alittlemorefair.IsaidtheonlyhopeIhadformyson-in-lawwastobehonestwithh
8、er.Andthishonestyis
