支招：如何轻松约会成功？

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1、支招：如何轻松约会成功？TipsforBecomingFluentintheNon-VerbalLanguageofDating[2011-04-2516:07]“身体语言”这一类词儿我们早就听得耳朵长茧了，然而，你真的知道别人对你源源不断，孜孜不倦地散发的那些气场到底暗示着什么吗？Interactionscanbewroughtwithmixedsignals-sayingonethingandnon-verballycommunicatinganother.Nowondersomanysinglesreportconfusio

2、nregardingwhattheirdatewasreallythinkingorfeeling.Onthesurface,understandingthislanguagecanseemverydifficult,ifnotimpossible.Notso,ifyoulearntospeakthenon-verballanguageofprocess.交流这种事情其实最纠结了，总是有人嘴上说着一套，心里想着一套。怪不得很多单身人士都抱怨说不知道约会对象到底在想什么。不过其实只要摸清了一些非语言表达方式的含义，那么看清对方的心思

3、也没那么难。Thefollowingtipswillbepresentedusingexamplesofnaturally(andcommonly)reporteddatingscenariosexperiencedbysingles.我们搜集了众多单身人士的约会资料，情景再现般地教给大家怎样破译约会的谜题。1.Eyecontact四目相对型Whenyouaresittingandtalkingwithyourdate,doyounoticehowtheylookatyou,whenyouortheyarespeaking?Whe

4、ntheireyecontactisgood,thisisasignthattheyfeelcomfortableandinterestedinyou.Theyarereallyinvolvedintheinteractionandwanttobethere.Italsocommunicateshonestyandsincerity.Conversely,whenyourdatehasdifficultymakingeyecontact,thiscommunicatesdiscomfort;lackofinterestoritco

5、uldbeextremeshyness.Thelastwouldbeeasytoknowiftheyareashypersoningeneral.当你们并肩而坐侃侃而谈之时，你有没有注意过他/她的眼睛？如果对方两眼一直关怀着你，那么他/她必然是对你有好感，表示他/她很享受交流的过程，同时你还能看到对方内心深处的坦诚与真挚。反之，如果他/她就是不愿抬眼跟你对望，那么对方要么就是对你没有好感、提不起兴趣，要么就是害羞。是不是害羞一般而言比较容易看出来。2.Restlessness坐立不安型Haveyoueverexperiencedt

6、herestlessdate?Youknowtheone.Hemovesaroundinhischair,shelooksatherwatch,andhismindseemssomewhereelse.Hemayormaynotofferanexplanation.WhatappearstobegoingonisthathermindISsomewhereelse.Thisbehaviorcommunicatesalackofinterestorapreoccupationwithsomeoneorsomewhereelse.跟这

7、种人约会过吗？男的坐立不安，神情恍惚；女的一会看表，一会提包。这种情况都不需要解释，两种可能，一是他/她对你没有兴趣，再者就是他/她心里有事儿，身在曹营心在汉。3.Lookingaroundatothersalotandnotatyou左顾右盼型Haveyoueverhadtheunpleasantexperienceofbeingoutwithsomeonewhowatchesthecrowdthewholetime?Perhaps,theyjustglancefurtively(andfrequently)aroundther

8、oom?This,ofcourse,signalslackofinterest,possiblediscomfortandadesiretoavoidinteractionwithyou.Itcanalsobeageneralsignofsomeo