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1、英语课后完型填空(带翻译)导读:就爱阅读网友为您分享以下“英语课后完型填空(带翻译)”的资讯,希望对您有所帮助,感谢您对92to.com的支持!Unit1Oddlyenough,influentialpeoplemaybemorerecognition-deprivedthanlessinfluentialpeople.Thisisbecausemanypeoplearehesitanttoofferacomplimenttothoseinpowerforfearofbeingaccusedofplayingofficepoliticsorbeingsycophantic.说来也怪,有势力
2、的人可能会比势力小的人更容易被认知剥夺。这是因为很多人害怕被指责玩办公室政治或阿谀奉承者,所以不愿意去恭维权势。Theinsecuritythatmanypeoplefeelcontributestotheeffectivenessofflattery.Thesepeoplewouldliketothinktheyaredoingtheirjobwell,beingagoodfamilyperson,ormakingacontributionincommunity19service.Yettheyarenotsure,andbecauseofthisless-than-completeco
3、nfidenceinthevalueoftheircontribution,theywelcomeexternalvalidation.Flatterapersonwithlurkinginsecurityandyouhavedrawnthatpersontowardyou.Canyourememberatimewhenyoufeltinsecurewhileperforminganewjob?Howdidyoufeelwhensomeonewhoseopinionyourespectedsaid,“You’redoingagreatjob”?很多人感受到的不安全感有助于奉承的有效性。这些
4、人希望认为他们工作做得好,在家里也做的好,或者对社区服务有贡献。但是他们自己并不确定,因为他们评估自己的贡献不够完全自信,他们欢迎来自外部的确认。奉承一个具有潜在不安全感的人会拉近你们的距离。你还能记起刚做一份新工作时感受到的不安全感吗?当那个你比较敬重他意见的人说“你做的很好”的时候你是什么感觉?Flatteryisalsoeffectivebecausemanypeopleexpectcharmingandtactfulpeopletoflatter.Ifyouwithholdallflattery,youruntheriskofnotbeingperceivedascharminga
5、ndtactful.Giventhatcharmingandtactcontributetomagnetism,peoplearemorelikelytoperceiveyouasmagneticifyouflatterthem.19因为很多人期待迷人而且识相的人的奉承,这样也是很有效的。如果你保留所有的奉承,那么你走向了一种不会被认为是迷人而且识相的风险中。鉴于迷人和机智有助于吸引力,如果你奉承他们会让他们更喜欢觉得你是一个有吸引力的人。AssumethatyouarestillskepticalaboutthereasonsIhavegivenfortheimportanceoffla
6、ttery.Lookattheissuefromanotherperspective:Nottoflatterotherscanbeaseriouscareerdrawback.Youcanloseoutincompetitionwiththosewhocombinegoodjobperformancewiththeabilitytoflatter.Onestudyonhowadvancementwasachievedatthetoplevelsinmajorbusinesscorporationsconcludedthatacompany’stopworkerstendtobeequal
7、inperformance.Soadvancingwasbased30percentonimageand50percentonface-to-facecontactswiththeboss.Flatteryentersthepicturebecauseitcanplayabigpartinenhancingone’simageandincontactswithone’ssuperiors.19假设你还在怀疑我给出的那些奉
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