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1、BodyLanguageTheverybestinstrumentthereisforfindingoutwhatisgoingonwithapersonisherbody.Thestateofthebodywillbeareflectionofheroverallstate.Thatinformationisveryuseful,bothtothepersonherselfandtoaprocessfacilitator.Thebestthingisifthepersonherselfisintunewithherbodyandshefeelswhatisgoi
2、ngonwithit.Butevenifshedoesn't,thefacilitatorwillbeabletopickupmuchinformation.Aperson'sexternalbodylanguagespeaksvolumes.Byobservingsomebody'sposture,eyemovements,breathingandskincolor,youcangaininformationaboutwhatsheisdoinginhermind.Youcangetthesameinformationbylisteningtothequalit
3、iesofhertoneofvoice.Andthisiswithoutbeingpsychic,justbylookingandlistening.IfyouaddabitofESPtoit,itjustgetsmucheasier.Bodylanguageisabigsubjectandtomasterthereadingofittoperfectionrequiresagooddealoftrainingandexperience.Herewewilljustpresentsomeofthemostpracticalthingsyoucannotice.In
4、theabsenceofknowingwhatdifferentbodymovementsmean,youcansimplynoticewhenthereisachangeintheclient'sbody.Forexample,ifsheissittingperfectlystillandsuddenlystartstwitchingormovinghereyes-thatisachange.Orifshechangesherrateofbreathing-thatisachange.Let'ssayyouhaveaskedtheclienttocloseher
5、eyesandmovebacktoapastincident.Atfirstsheisjustsittingstill,hereyesnotmoving.Butsuddenlyyoucanseehereyesmovingbehindhereyelidsandherheadisjerkingalittlebitandmaybeherbreathinggetsfaster.Well,thatmostlikelymeansthatshefoundanincident.Interestingly,shemightnotherselfhavenoticedthat.Subc
6、onsciouslyshehastheincidentrightthere,butconsciouslyshemightnothaveacknowledgedit.So,ifshedoesn'tstartspeakingbyherselfyoucansay"What'sthat?",or"Whatdoyousee?"Ifwearedealingwithanincident,thebodywilloftenshowwhatisinit,orhowsherelatestoit.Ifhereyeballsaremoving,itmeansthatthereissomet
7、hingtolookat.Ifshesuddenlybreathespantingly,itmeanssomethingexcitingorstressfulisgoingon.Iftheclientisleaningforward,sheisprobablyintotheincident,involveddirectlyintheaction.Ifsheisleaningback,sheisprobablyseeingitfromadistance.Youcannotbesure,justfromaspecificbodymotion,whatisgoingon
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